Just something for you, what are you scared of? Are you scared she will file because she hasn't yet and sitting down is not filing? Are you scared you will argue and push her farther away? Are you scared you won't get what you want because you will give in? Really self-evaluate and find out why you chickened out. It is a good chance for you to really look inward at what is making you tick. There is nothing wrong with post-poning the talk, especially if you are not ready. You need to be completely ready to sit down and talk about this because if you do it too early, it won't work. So now think about why you are not ready and address those issues with yourself and use them to help you grow.
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