Standing up for those that have been raked over the coals then pee'd on to be made feel better is one thing.
asking you a simple counter-intuitive question is another. Were you not the one that was buying dildos and talking about leaving the receipt about the house? OMG, Steve questioning after 2 years! 2 years!! 2 years!!!
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12/07 - ILYBINILWY, living in same house/same bed
what is Mindblank's actual goal and what might kick her husband a$$ in to realizing FINALLY that his wife is actually in love with him and desires him, because I am not seeing that from your posts, is "D**k in the mouth material" as you so put it! LORD GOD KING BUFU GAG ME WITH A SPOON! I give up.
As I see you read my post and took offense, I understand, but understand you are not some guy who had to hear from his neighbor that some naked guy jumped out of your bedroom window as you were pulling in the drive. Think about that and what would cross your mind if you read that here on Divorce Busting dot com bulletin board?
Would you response with "Oh Mommy-Wommy-Tommy I feel so badsy-wadsy for yousy-woosy I wishy-kissy I could wrap my army-warmies around you and tell you luvie-dovie-wuvie it will be OK" ???????????????
or maybe from Papillion, hence Steve McQueen:
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Put all hope out of your mind. And masturbate as little as possible, it drains the strength
I was simply trying to challenge you and your resolve. I taught very highly of you. Good luck. And when some guy some day posts that exact same I did, and it will happen, don't sugar coat and hide the truth from him.
Last edited by Steve McQueen; 01/12/1005:54 AM. Reason: I pray you are not here that long for that!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
I am CERTAINLY not trying to defend him, because that does no good in helping to move forward...
His tone, his stature, etc..., all suggested he was surprised by it, not unfeeling. However, he is NOT a sensitive guy at ALL, never has been. That WAS part of the attraction!
Sure, he could have handled things a bit differently, but, being w/him and hearing/seeing him, it truly was more of surprise than uncaring.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
While you're live in fear... you don't have a marriage. While you live in doubt... you don't have a marriage. While you live in procrastination... you don't have a marriage.
What you have is never ending limbo.
M:11 | T:12 | Status: Married 4C's of WAS communication: Cool, Calm, Collected and CONFIDENT
I am so thankful for my boss. He is just an honest-to-goodness stand-up guy. Between the pneumonia and the heart procedure, I have been a bit of high maintenance (SHOCK), BUT I made my quota....! However, he called to let me know they're putting a bonus on my next paycheck, and he's giving me the option of doing this Palm Springs trade show in two weeks... Said he knows I have a lot of rest still needed from the last month's health issues, and my work needs to be caught up, too (knows I'm anal about my job). So, I have a decision to make re: trade show. It's my favorite. Palm Springs in January? Come on!
Day 2 of chugging blech detox tea half-way done! And, I walked again.
S12 has another conf tournament bball game tonight. (They won last night 43-12.) A little nervous to see how H is after our chitchat last night, but I'm keeping the PMA high! Oh, and also, I have a cute new blouse to wear!
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Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
Actually, I was thinking about it... I started DB'ing about a year ago, after a very stormy year of M. No offense to the DB techniques, but after a full year of NOT bringing up the R, NOT talking about our M, blahblahblah, I am really at a point now, that I can't find the courage!
And, the year before was almost an entire year of blow-ups from him not talking to me, me pursuing, me overreacting, sobbing, etc...
So, I'm almost paralyzed - make any sense?
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
