On the STBXH front, even though he hadn't seen the kids in 1 week and only talked to them once. I asked him (again) if he would like the kids overnight on Sunday night. Which really means stay here and I sleep elsewhere.
He said yes, after a few attempts to get a straight answer and he did. Of course, daughter starts texting me in the middle of the day... how she hates in when he is there, he never listens..blah blah blah. Well, come to find out Monday morning when I arrived home at 6:45 STBXH had gone out with one of the other neighbors for a beer for a couple of hours. Seriuously, you get your kids for a short amount of time and you go out. Couldn't he do that any other time? I left my house for that. ugh!
Anyway, S says to me that he is concerned for his D as he said "D was cooking bacon and it popped, and I asked him if he was ok... and dad turned around and said "NO, MY LIFE SUCKS". It is certainly a shame that he did all this in the pursuit of happiness and he still is not happy. Of course, the blame shifts as to why he's not happy. He's the only one in the whole world who is stressed, working hard, and fiancially strapped. No one else has any of these worries. I guess it's true when I read somewhere about how you can tell how a person handles stress by watching them deal with Christmas tree lights. In the beginning it was funny, towards the end and cursing, woes is me fest.
So, maybe psycho chick is back in the picture. He went on to lecture them about how they were to young to understand so on and so forth. I meet with L on Wednesday to go over final draft of financials before we turn it over to STBX.
Last edited by sandycay; 01/12/1003:41 PM.
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too
