Last week I made the suggestion to my W that we attend family C to give all of us a chance to talk about what is happening. I want to make sure the kids understand.
Over that last couple of days I have been thinking about how fast things are moving, a least from my point of view, down this negative road. Last year at this time we were working on things. Now we are at a point where we did not even spend anytime together during the major holidays. Hell, my W and I did not even exchange Christmas cards. I tried to get her to spend sometime with the kids on Christmas but she was not willing to do that and mess up her plans. I realize bringing up the OM is a big no no but it seems like she is just taking things to far.
I know she is likely thinking this OM will become apart of her "family time" but we are not there yet. She still has a family and yet she seems completely disinterested in it. The OM is more important to her than the impact she is having on the kids and that is wrong in so many ways. I want to talk to her about this but not sure for one, if it will do any good and two, if it will just make the situation worse. Help!!!
