Looking for help with WAW

[mza8]

tgf, thank you. Could please explain a bit more about the security blanket? Do you mean that the separation is her security blanket or that my not wanting the separation is her security blanket? Once her security blanket is gone then she might begin to think differently? I'm thinking that telling her I'm moving on that it might shock her. Sandi indicated my W need to be shocked at this time.

Really hard to let go. Anyone else let go and their WAS then began to try to work on the M?