Exactly. I don't think anyone here will deny that you have gone above and beyond in giving your husband opportunities to let you down.

Maybe -- maybe -- if you finally drop the rope, he'll get it through his head that the usual games won't cut it. But I wouldn't hold out hope for that possibility.

Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."