Kemper,

Thank you for responding and putting the time into it. You know what.........you are right. It was nice to hear from a man's perspective. You're right my son does need that time with his dad. I should be thankful that he does want to be involved in his life. Yes, it is his biological son. We just have the one child. He is 2.5 years old. We do need to set up a schedule it's been said for about two years....doing a good job of procrastinating I'm aware. I'm being selfish. I want him all the time but know that isn't good for my son. I need to think of him. he needs his father also.

Kemper ----

I'm sorry to hear that. It must've been a blow to hear that news. I would feel the same way if I were you. Sounds very expensive wow .....how unfortunate. I absolutely adore my ring and even if it ends in divorce which is probably will I couldn't part with that ring. It's hurtful because it was such a strong symbal/representation of the marriage and she disregarded that so quickly....which is why you are struggling with it right?


Me: 31
H: 30
Son 2.5

Minnesota