Donna, I think deceptive and not forthcoming may be a tad strong. I am probably over analyzing as Kerry put it. There have been no real red flags, a couple of yellows. Mike, I am not looking elsewhere or "waiting for something better to come around" and yes we are exclusive. I would not have it any other way. She is happy as am I with the status quo although at times I get the feeling that she wants more. I am content with the present arrangements. My place, her place, some sleepovers but nothing more "permanent".
Anyways, it looks like the boys (k, M and the goodfight) vote for sticking around and the ladies (Donna and maybe Gyps) are saying end it. Could it be another venus and mars thing?