thank you for the support-- but this job is a dead end anyhow.
I need to find another job... in another city-- and there isn't one where she is.
thus the stress of trying to figure out what avenue I go. do I try and get data of the affair, go through a messy divorce to try and get the kids to then come with me to some random city? do I give up cardiac to move to another town to be where my kids are but do a job that is not exactly what I trained to do (maybe). the surgeon there is really nice and very much is trying to get me to go there. so at least I'd have one good friend up there! actually many of the surgeons there are good guys and want me there... that is a bonus as well.
