Looking for help with WAW

[mza8]

Sandi, I didn't agree to counseling, sorry if I was confusing about that. I told her I would go to C for repairing the M, not for closure. I wanted to make sure I understood her reasons for C first. Now that she has once again told me her reasons I don't think it's a good idea to go. My DB coach said my W will just use it as an excuse to say she tried C and not to go to C for anything else but to repair M.

If I send my W this email today I will tell her that I will always be open to discussing saving our M but for now it's clear that is not what she wants to for now I will say goodbye.