Cutter, I think maybe you and P are getting tired of my ways. January just started an by the end of the month I will have mastered the technique of being distant, mysterious, but still nice! I am just slipping up a little is all but I will get better! Hey, am down to cooking one meal per night, am going to be gone 2/3 evenings that he is here and busy all day on his day off up until the signing class! (which is at the end of his visit)
Plan A has been 3 months I think--October to present. My resentment tolerance goes up and down. I have been on here for 2 months. I will think about your idea regarding the 6 degrees of separation.
I believe my WH is not convinced he wants to D, but he will not go on like this forever, so to quote Kelly Clarkson's song, "Someone's gotta go" (and it will be THE HO)
Tonight I did well being gone 5:45-7:40. Did bad by telling him I went grocery shopping-could have hid them in the car til he left(no frozen foods) and just said "Class was cancelled" if he asked how it went.
Tomorrow I plan to stay busy working out, cooking, cleaning. I will be available during the time we eat the meal; 15-20 minutes.
(BTW today S and I went to music class, saw my grandma and took her to lunch. Tomorrow we visit my sister at her college)
Last edited by newmama; 01/12/1008:02 AM.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
