I guess the thing is, I'm not sure I like this slow status quo, it is frustrating wondering whether or not things are getting better or not, plus opportunities for me to see other people are beginning to emerge (albeit very slowly).
How long do you feel like waiting--and how long have you been seperated now? How long since the A started? And have you stayed friends with the female coworker who loves you?
If tou decide you don't want to be in status quo aby longer, why not ask her what she's thinking? What are the pros and cons to that?
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She is particularly scared of my friends and family (my friends did not react well) and anyone who knows about what she did.
I think if you brought up discussion about the relationship, you could explain how the two of you could deal with family and friends.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
