Am I Ready for This?

[glamgirl]

Upside sorry things aren't transpiring the way that you wanted them to. I had a feeling it was going to go this way, but wanted it to happen for you. Sadly your h isn't ready to come home. What is it going to take? Who knows?

Maybe it's time for you to just focus on you. You will never know what the future might hold. We have been at this a very long time and I finally realized awhile back that my h was never returning. I simply got tired of trying to pull someone home that didn't want to come home. That was the awakening for me.

My h and I continue to be friends and business partners. It actually is a much better R, since now I have no expectations and we talk on a business level only.

I don't know what will work for you Upside, but maybe let the R go for now and pick it up later if you choose.

You can't make someone come home. That was my life learning experience here. No matter what you say, do, think, look it won't bring them home until they truly want to return.

Best of luck but don't wait forever life is too short and precious for that!

Cheers,

Glam