And for the icing on MY f'n cake, the other realtor that shared the same office as my realtor, chimes in after about 10 min and says to me, "You know, xxxxxx, you're such sweet, nice man, and you are so good looking too! Your W is crazy and she doesn't deserve a man in her life like you.... you've a beautiful home, great career and a terrific personality, You do know that there is an absolutely gorgeous, smart young woman working here and you are exactly her type!". "Her name is xxxxx, she so gorgeous, most men won't even approach her to ask her out, come back tomorrow, I'll tell her you're coming and just ask her out for lunch, or coffee. I know this woman well and I know you two would really enjoy each others company."
I will never tire of these ego boosts,,, and I just post these incidences to underscore that what I am doing for myself and my esteem is working! Its confidence and directness,,, I went there with 4'Cs, on a mission to get work done. People see it, W has too as well, but probably too stubborn to give in to it... her loss.. I'm not going to be a D1ck about it to her, but, I have to acknowledge that its no coincidence...
DD
H50 W44 M17 yrs S15 D11 D10 Bomb 4/09 Trial separation/moved out 9/09 Moved back in 12/29/09