I don't think H belittled her feelings.... it's hard for me to explain, but he's probably shocked that this small thing was that hard to come to him to talk about it.

AND...fyi, you needed to be more precise. you asked him to consider your feelings...but what does that mean??? what would he need to do, in order for you to feel more trusting towards him, and not be resentful? this part you left out.

SOOOO, your going to have to be careful, because he may not know what he should do, and because he told you the reasons, he may not change what he does. so I would not expect a big change on this one.

Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."