Translation; "Cas, you should do everything to minimise my guilt and discomfort. You do the work and I will accept such gestures graciously but I won't make any sincere efforts."
Originally Posted By: givingitmyall
A "friend" does not do what my W has decided to do. And if that is a "friend," I don't need any of those.
Originally Posted By: givingitmyall
Originally Posted By: Lost Rabbit
Why do they seem to think the hand of friendship is enough to passify us?
I don't think they are doing it for us. They are doing it to reduce the guilt/conflict they are fighting.
Originally Posted By: SoldierDad
100% agree with you on the friends thing. Civil-yes, friends-no chance.
And the motion passes. Agreed all around. Let's see...in my group of true friends - some lifelong - how many have abandoned me? Proven that their word, promise, commitment was worthless? Accused me of vile things? Attempted to turn loved ones against me? Systematically broken dozens of agreements? Screwed me financially? That would be ...none! And despite how that sounds, I'm not bitter about it. It's just a fact, just my stance. "Let's be friends"? Give me a friggin' break!
