GIMA, maybe it's time you stopped 'explaining' to her and start 'deciding.' From this point forward you don't owe her any more explanations and don't need to excuse yourself either....Trying to reason is a futile exercise. The only reason that is understood is "the carrot and the stick."
Good point. A hard one to remember when one has a logical, reasonable mind and is dealing with someone who no longer does.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
