It goes ok. Really cold here today, so cold that the power went off at my daughter's school today. My daughter tried to get ahold of me but couldn't so she called the wife and wife called me and told me she was picking up my daughter and taking her to her apartment for the day.
So, after work I went to pick up daughter and the extent of the conversation from my wife was if the power goes out at your house, you are welcome to come and stay here for the night. I said, thank you but did not pursue or say anything else. Judging from her demeanor it appears almost as if she is beaten and does not want to go on? I don't know, I'm probably reading into it. My take on it is that she knows it would be a lot of work to regain my trust if I was to let her come back and I'm not just going to roll over and take it from her anymore. She knows this and would rather have it her way(I call this the Burger King attitude).
You know, she wants to come home, take charge of my paycheck again, dictate when and where we go on vacation, bitch at me when I want to do something, and so on.
I didn't get the chance to go see my lawyer today but will have the chance on Wednesday or Thursday depending on my work.
At this point, I don't see any other option but to go ahead and file for divorce. Unless something strange happens where my wife tells me everything and agrees to go to counseling, I think that is the right thing to do for me and my daughter. But, I don't think that's going to happen.
Meanwhile, back to being happy, confident and busy as Gucci has pointed out to me before, women like these traits in a man and I don't intend to live my life alone.
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!