Thanks RW...I was kinda thinking along those lines. I don't want to think for him but am wondering after I had the "I choose our marraige" talk, why he didn't just come out and say he had already made up his mind! So, is he just saying that because he was caught with the OW or does he really want out? I KNOW...it is not doing me any good to dwell on those questions!!!

It just seems like a lot of other DBer's on here have had their spouses tell them WHY they want out of the marraige and what faults the LBS has and the only thing I have gotten from H is that he thinks he loves OW. He has not pointed out any faults in me...

I will keep going with this. I am not giving up until I am served with divorce papers.

M48 H53
M16 T18
S16 D13
SS30
H drops bomb PA/8-30-09
H leaves 12-30-09
D filed by H 2-10
H asks to come home 4-11
Piecing