Hey, Bill. I'm glad to see you back, and you sound a lot stronger, and centered now. Glad for that.
It sounds like your W is still kind of looking for someone else to make her happy, you or an OM or whatever, instead of looking to herself to become happy. I would want 2 conditions if you reconcile: no OM (just the thought of access may help & not that you have to continually snoop), and some kind of IC for your W or MC or some kind of therapy for her.
