My wife just started college today, so I don't think she found anyone there yet. I really do not believe there is another person. I have not found anything that could confirm any type of affair. Maybe I'm wrong, but I have not found anything to tell me otherwise.
Wife and I went out today for lunch. I'll admit I sent her a text asking if she wanted to get lunch today. She called me and said she didn't know if she would have time, I told her that was fine if she didn't I just wanted to get something to eat did she want to join me. She called me back a little bit later and said she wanted to. We ate...talked small talked, laughed a little about stuff. It felt nice. Maybe I am setting myself up for hurt here...but am I the only one who finds their spouse stunningly good looking after not seeing them for a while? She floored me. I did not tell her this though. Anyway she said "so what are we going to do about things" and I told her I didn't want to talk about it. We did a little though, and we didn't fight. We hugged and she went on her way to her next class. Haven't heard from her after that but she did have to work tonight. I just hope I am not getting false hope...she WANTS to talk to me, almost always initiates the calls, and if I don't answer calls back. I am just going with the flow, I'm not expecting anything or asking for anything. I am committed to making myself a better person for ME. I'm also praying and praying for guidance and patience.
