@Mishka, you are correct. Kids don't know. W WILL be the one to tell them - I have already had that discussion with W. And she will not tell them I agree with her decision.
@aak, glad to hear from you. Hope you've been well. I think the question should be rephrased to what we think when parents don't involve their kids n their issues. That means no bad talk about one another in front of the kids. That does NOT mean being friends. IMO, I think it's about sheltering the kids from the negativism that exists b/w D'd parents. The kids aren't naïve - they know you got D'd b/c you didn't get along. But, we don't have to let those problems bleed over into the kids' lives.
