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[awest1217]

When I went to the L, I went prepared to ask a bunch of questions. She knows exactly my concerns with H having S and she said according to the courts he would still get visitation even with everything I know, and bringing it all up would actually hurt me more than him so I might as well stay quiet because what I have now is the best deal I will probably get.

Also the L said that unless it is years, months mean nothing to the courts so I have no leg to stand on when it comes to abandonment. I kind of have to do what you have done. If he files, ok, but if not I am happy with not ever talking to him again. What I want is a divorce where I get S completely, H waives his rights and does not pay child support in return. That is what i am getting right now so I am just going to live with it. He is not a good father like many of the dads are on here. To not even attempt to see S, pay support, or anything just boggles my mind. Oh well. I am happy and that is all that matters.