<<Would you TELL NGF that there was something missing>>
No I would not because I am not sure what it is and am hopefull that as we get to know each other more, this feeling I have will dissipate. What possible good could come out of me being so brutally honest? It is a feeling I have...I am questioning myself...she is a notary not a psychologist ....LOL

<<If you can't have that kind of intimate sharing, what are you doing?>>
Maybe I am the one in left field here but that is some serious intimacy. What am I doing? Certainly not settling in order to not be alone. I only see her sporadically although we are in contact every day.