Gima, my H says he wants us to be friends eventhough he has ow. He says b/c of our history and our children we should aim to be friends. Translation; "Cas, you should do everything to minimise my guilt and discomfort. You do the work and I will accept such gestures graciously but I won't make any sincere efforts."
LOL Cas! Your h and my xh must have scripted that one together. Almost word for word what I was told. What a crock!
You know GIMA, I think you handled that very well.
If I remember correctly your children still don't know, correct? When is your W telling them? You should be present but she needs to own her responsibility for this and if she tries to pull the whole "Mommy and daddy just don't get along anymore." bullcrap on them call her on it. She doesn't get to weasel her way out of this one.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
