maybe this is being done to us, by whatever otherworldy power you believe in (even fate or karma), to make us better people. All those threads I have read are from better people at the end than when they started.
I think that nothing I did in this lifetime caused me, and certainly not my S,to deserve to be hurt so horribly. I didn't take this quote word for word; I took it to mean people have learned from this and become stronger in some way, not better. Just my interpretation.
That was the way I meant it (it was my quote so had to chime in). Better was the wrong word to use - stronger was the right one.
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I do think that it's possible we are sacrificing ourselves so that the WSs can learn painful lessons.
How are we sacrificing ourselves though? I don't feel I have sacrificed anything. I feel W has thrown away a lot but I have done nothing.
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Don't mean to make it sound like we are perfect and they are crap, but I mean that the lesson is for the WS and we are suffering the consequences.
The reverse of that entire quote is also true
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
