All opinions are welcome. I saw the movie as well. Maybe we can say that she is more into me than I am into her. I think you hit the nail on the head with the dog, however, not sure about NGF. After reading a post yesterday, I began to ask myself if I would ever "give" myself to someone else the way I did to the XW. I honestly think the answer is no. It may be sad to some but I am ok with it. Now as far as your opinion to let her go....that kind of intrigues me. What have I written that would make you come to the conclusion that I should let her go. What does it mean when you know someone for nine months to love them fully? I am very interested in the answers.
Kerry (bro), let me try to answer your questions in order;
We see each other when we can...no set times. My anticipation is lower now then it used to be but not much lower. Yes her positives outweigh the negatives by alot....I honestly can't even tell you what is missing. As I stated above it is not her it is me (was that a line from that movie???). I don't think she is pursuing too much or going too fast. It is moving along at a nice pace. Would she want it to move faster...i think all women want that at some point.
To answer your last question bluntly, I have learned to shut up and listen and not try to solve things. That is the most difficult thing for guys to do I think. I must be doing a good job without even knowing it because I am loved (not romantically) by a boatload of ladies in my life and quite honestly I am not sure why. Maybe they are right, I AM a nice guy. I just never believed it.
Ok enough woman talk, time for a stogie with the boys....
