Not generally a good idea to bring it up to them, but I think many of us do. Not to pat my own back, but I think the way I did it was one of the better ways.
However, it didn't matter much as you will discover if you keep reading.
Not mentioning OM IS hard, I am proud. Keep it up.
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and I did not ask, 'was OM there that night of the sleepover?"
Very good job. Involving the kids I will jump ugly on you for if you do. Keep them as protected as possible. At 6 you want them to be innocent and clueless about this.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK