Thanks for the book recommendation and the advice, I'm almost done. Great stuff. Things are a mess right now. My daughter is holding everything inside. I think if things go bad, she will see someone for sure. She is so cute. We were in a line chain dancing at the bar, she was in between my W and I, then she stepped away with a big smile on her face and went back to the table so we would be together.
I am have decided not to be so dark and give her the love that was missing in our marriage which was empty. She seems to be accepting it now. My gut tells me this is what she wants. I suppose she sees that other women find me desirable and I got the message that this bothered her a lot. A woman that really wanted to get rid of me, and really wanted a divorce wouldn't care what I did.
She told me every guy always has a plan B in his back pocket. I'm going 100% plan A now.
My ihome woke me up today with the old Elvis tune "A little less conversation and a little more action". Again, not my stuff. I think she sent me another message.
Me:49 W: 41 Kids=D14/D14/S10 Married: 15 Together: 16 Bomb: 08/26/09 Currently: separated but in the different houses.
