Thank you so much!!! I hope you are doing well also, I've tried to find your post & couldn't find them. How are things with you & your H? I hope you are still working on the M. You are the one that deserves good things in your life! You have been so strong & you have been with me from day one on DB & I can't thank you enough!! Plus, you have been going thru so much yourself. I pray for good things for you also!!!
Just reporting in. I finally got my alimony check today! Thank goodness!!! Here is the deal, before when the check was at the other bank it would be in xh & ow name, now it is just in ow's name. The address she is using on the check is xh's brothers address in the US. I hope she is not putting all the money in her account & getting ready to do something! Who knows about her, oh well, not my problem. At least I got my check.
Thank goodness you received the check. I wouldn't email the old bat about it. I don't trust her one bit. You should be able to breathe easier now.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
No way will I email her! I'm like you, I don't trust her a bit!!! I am relieved that I got it. I just dreaded getting a lawyer involved. Maybe since they changed banks they haven't had time to put xh's name on the account but I still think it is weird that they went from a bank that is all over the US to a bank that is only around the TX area, which is where she lived. I guess we'll find out eventually.
Haven't checked in for a while. Just thought I would report. I am supposed to receive my alimony check on the 5th of each month. Last month I got it on the 11th & this month I got it on the 12th. It is not in xh name at all, it's in ow name only. I figured the last time they just didn't have time to get his name on the account but now I don't think that is the case but I don't know the reason. Strange, but then again the ow is crazy.
I hope everyone is doing well. This is a sad weekend for me, yesterday was xh birthday & then tomorrow is Valentine's Day. He always did something so special for me.
I'm having a sad weekend but I'll snap out of it soon. I guess I can have a pitiparty every now & then.
While I see why you don't want to change your email, you are able to block individual users. The idiot your ex married is getting her jollies by abusing you through email. Just block her and move on.
Also, my ex is supposed to get my COBRA payment to me on the 1st of each month, but he sends it 3, 4, now up to 5 days late. Why? Beats me. But if I were to guess, it is a control thing. And if he thinks I will send an email complaining about it, he is sadly mistaken.
I'm sorry I haven't responded to your post, I just haven't been on this site in a long time.
I agree, I think your ex sending you the payment is a control issue! And, he is wanting you to complain. That is the way it is with me, the ow is sending me the alimony check & it has been late every month since she changed banks. I got it on the 9th this month but usually it has been the 11th or 12th, I'm supposed to receive it by the 5th. She wants me to complain but there is no way I will email her. She doesn't know if I'm getting her emails or not since I don't respond. The check is coming in her name only, I don't know what that is all about unless she is hiding money from my ex. Who knows??
These ex's they just don't know what they have gotten themselves into with these ow, I know the ow my ex is with is crazy & I'm not using that term lightly, it's the true.
I haven't been on this site much just because I really don't have anything going on. Here is the latest. A collection agency is coming after me b/c my ex never took my name off the timeshare & he is not paying the maintenance fee. So, they are coming after me b/c they cannot get in touch with him. I may have to get my lawyer involved, I have court document stating that I as released from all responsibilities from that. We'll see what happens. I have contacted the timeshare & they are working on it but said since it had been turned over to collections they didn't know for sure. Now the lastest on my ex & ow, they have adopted a Laos baby born this month, he is 50 she is about 52. In her email she said "God as truly blessed their family". I'm not sure how someone like her can use God's name after what all she has done. She is a sociopath & another way to trap him. She is a sick woman & I suppose my ex is a sick man!
Have your lawyer take care of the time share issue and at the same time, he should have your name removed from it as well. This little problem will go against your credit history if you don't invest a little time and money in getting it taken care of. You cannot rely on your xh to do anything about it....his head is stuck in some deep dark place right now.
That poor baby....two people that now call themselves parents will be raising this child. I hope things work out for them, but this may be the icing on the mlc cake.
Enough about them.....how are you doing? How are your parents?
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Hi Snodderly! I'm doing ok, this baby thing threw me back a little bit. I do feel sorry for that baby, that is for sure!! From all I have seen of her other grown kids they are all trash.
Yes, I know this timeshare thing will ruin my credit. I have contacted the timeshare people & they are trying to remove it, in the meantime the creditors are calling, I talked to one man that was very nice & understood my situation, but this one woman that calls is so hateful, she told me I would have to pay & sue my ex. Well, that will never work so I'm working on getting this taken care of. I called Transunion & talked to them about it, they did tell me that I could get my credit report, dispute that charge & show proof that my name was supposed to be removed. She said that all 3 of the reporting companies would remove it when they get the proof. If I cannot get this cleared up thru the timeshare people I will get my lawyer involved. I have already emailed his paralegal about it, so she is aware of it. I told her what I'm doing with the timeshare people & she said just see if that will work & if it doesn't then they will get involved.
The timeshare people told me they sent my ex an email last year & told him the papers I sent was not legible to send them again. Well, that is when I got that nasty email from ow, she said in her email that the papers I had already sent should be enough that they were not sending anything. Well, I didn't know what the timeshare people told them so I didn't know anything that was going on. I'm sure my ex never saw the email. He knows it's his responsibility. I emailed the timeshare woman that I spoke to last week all the papers, she emailed me back said she printed them off & was giving it to the billing dept. to see if they could erase my name. So, she is trying & understood my situation.
My parents are doing well, thank you so much for asking. They almost came to visit this weekend but they felt like they had a lot to do at their house. I wish they were here, it's raining & storming & I'm pretty depressed. But, I'll be all right. The storms are supposed to get worse later on & possible tornadoes, I hope it doesn't get that bad! Maybe it won't.
I'm trying to be very strong. I'm really like you, I have a feeling the baby will be the icing on the cake for MLC. She sent pictures of course, to me my ex looks bad, the smile on his face is fake, he doesn't look happy, but then again I haven't seen him in 2 years so I don't know whether he is or not. I was with him for 18 years so I do think I know a fake smile from a real one.
