Hey K... I'm so glad life is settling down again.. ok its not all sunshine and lollipops, but how wonderful that he is THERE, that you are having nice weekends as a family and good times again with friends as a couple.
I'm glad he is hugging you now although its frustrating hey that he is just inching closer to you instead of passionately snog you in the surf a la Here to Eternity.. or is that just me and my fantasies !?
This is a big week! Mercury (planet of communication!) finally goes direct on Friday, same day as the eclipse in Capricorn, followed by Jupiter finally moving into Pisces.. hurrah!
You have to look back to 1998 and 1986 to see what kind of year you might have (although both of those years did have their ups and downs at the time, but looking back, 1998 was excellent and set me up for my future - it was the year I got given a lot of money (very Jupiterish) bought my first little house and the year bf who was then only my BMF, confessed he was in love with me...)
xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
I was talking about me Forrest. I would have the procedure. There is another kind of procedure that he would be a candidate for, Lorena style...
Ali, 1986 was a good year for me. Sep 1985 I moved to Munich and 1986 was a year of new adventures. And it changed my life completely. So, could this mean that I may move to a foreign country again??????????
1998 I was with H. In love still, we went to Dominican Repuplic for vacation that year, but not in bliss. We had settled down from the crazy love making routines etc etc. For me it was also the year AFTER my mom had survived brain surgery and I had gotten this job at the airport which is considered a good job here. So, whatever happened last year, will remain this year? Hmmm, complicated...
One thing I kind of realise now is that the innocence in me is lost. Will never come back. Our relationship will never be as it was. That could be good, could also be bad. K
Our VERY telling horoscpes for the week...
PISCES Partners may have infuriatingly indecisive lately. It may be taking longer than you hoped to get people on the same page and you’ve been trying hard to find the right balance between freedom and commitment. Trust the result of this rehashing of rules has been necessary to understand the new landscape. You are now clearly on the road to your destiny. Events of the next few days should leave you feeling rather reassured of your power and position. After all the effort you’ve put into creating something of integrity, don’t be surprised when you start receiving the tangible benefits of your hard work.
GEMINI You’ve been deeply contemplating a financial or intimate relationships situation. With your ruler Mercury currently retrograde, use the next few days to gather information. Find the courage to have an honest discussion over the next couple of days with a partner. It may be scary to speak about your hearts desire. But if you do, you are likely to find a solid show of support. Financially, emotionally and sexually this about finding common values that hold you together, while still giving each other the freedom to be express their individuality. You’ve been burned before, but the past need not repeat itself if you are wise enough to learn from it.
I have been thinking of Essie and Stella, if you are out there, hugs and kisses!!!! Hope you are both OK!
One thing I kind of realise now is that the innocence in me is lost. Will never come back. Our relationship will never be as it was.
No one keeps their innocence. Wine improves with aging. Rodin started with a block of stone and ended up with sculpted art.
You can't paddle back upstream. There is new scenery after the rapids.
FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
Really would you want it to be as it was? Wouldn't you want to do some tweeking even before all of this mess? Create what you want. You are both like clay right now and can make the changes you want. I am rooting for you.
hugs, kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
No, I dont want that relationhsip. But it wasnt ALL bad!!! And the part I will miss is the one where you go to bed at night and you are thinking to yourslef :God am I lucky to have found this man!!! (or woman) The best I can think of now is "God are you lucky for getting this chance!!!" K
Are you lucky or is he lucky that you are giving him a chance to right his wrongs? Don't get me wrong I realize that everyone has participated in the breakdown of the R/M but who is really the lucky one?
My bet would be that he is lucky to have someone like you willing to allow him to right his wrongs and have been strong to stand by this long.
Keep your head high as it sounds like things are progressing.
M 33 | W 34 | Kids: S4, S3 M: 5/28/05 Bomb: 8/22/09 EA: 8/1/09 | PA 12/26/09 W L: 10/21/09 M L: 11/16/09 | 12/09 to file SA W & Boys Move Out: 3/14/10
Hey K.. well seeing as this is your thread and we are talking about you here, you know I think YOU are the lucky one. Because you got what 200+ people here are fighting for and you wanted (you did right !?) you won your WAS back. And that is a very rare thing indeed. So, be thankful hey, thank your 'lucky stars'.
Talking of stars!..Wow, so you mentioned two big things in your previous 'Jupiter' years that marked those years.. living in Munich in 1985/6 and going to the Dominican Republic in 1998... and Jupiter represents.. yes, travel! Well distant horizons...literally and in the mind.
The keyword for Jupiter is expansion.. expansion of the mind, of your world, broadening your horizons.. either literally by going abroad/moving abroad (more than a short or insignificant trip because Jupiter rules the 9th house which is foreign cultures and higher learning) or, just learning a language, or learning about other cultures, or higher learning itself and so broadening our knowledge and experience.
Our Jupiter year is one of opportunities to 'broaden our horizons' whether that be physically, mentally or spiritualy. So, if you ever wanted to go back to college (we're talking Higher education, not just skills, or short courses) then apply THIS YEAR! If you ever wanted to learn a foreign language, ditto, OR, if you wanted to travel then do it this year! Jupiter will give us opportunities that will set us up, something big to 'grow' over the next decade. And for me that could be VERY literal! Its a very auspicious year and it can mean EXPANSION of your love (and your waist, so watch the donuts )
This could be a year you go on a long trip or longhaul trip away (London!). I told bf that this would be a year of travel, I could sense it (and we barely holidayed the past 5 years because of my fear of flying and the S)..we made plans since to go skiing end Jan, longhaul to Hong Kong in March and Venice in May to mark our R (and I have you to thank for that, you gave me the idea!!)
But I gave up waiting for him to whisk me away..I hinted subtley...but nothing booked, I hinted heavily..nothing, I TOLD him when and why I wanted to go away, he got excited, but..nothing.. so I asked him to arrange leave & then we will sit down and book it together. You might have to do the same!
Its exciting, think BIG, if you can dream it, you can be it etc...xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
ps.. you were right about those stars.. I can sense an important 'closure' conversation about the past looming and then a new beginning.. Mercury is about to go direct at the end of the week along with the eclipse, so watch out for something then. Right before Jupiter goes into Pisces and the world is then our oyster
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