She really bristled at the term 'open relationship'. I told her it is what she has already implmented on her side, so by just acknowledging it and accepting it I can be at peace.
She doesn't want to acknowledge that open relationship describes what she has done. She doesn't want to wrap her mind around that and face reality. It isn't my point with this however, I am not trying to get any reaction out of her outside of getting her to hold off moving out until I get established in my new job and allow kids to finish the school year without radical change.
ME/XW:47 S21, D19, S15, S14 M:21 T:26 W moved 6/10 I filed 7/10 D final 4/12 remarried 8/12 W wants to R 12/10 and 4/11 but I decline
