Don't know where to post this.

[loveherstill]

Thank you Gnosis.
Point taken.
She has stated she likes the ILY but only once or twice a day.
When I stopped saying it for 4 days only she panicked and ran to me screaming that I had abandoned her and that it is now over forever.

She has severe abandonment issues, as all men before me either cheated on her, beat her, or abandoned her (including her own father)

I feel reassuring her the way I feel every now and again is important.

I will not however try to call her and I will not hold her after she has seen OM.

Still working on boundries with this type of woman.