We all here realise that she or any other WAS (incl my H) can have ten different accounts, unknown to us, different phone-numbers, call from work etc, right? These are gestures of commitement, and mean alot, but the bottom line is SOME amount of trust is required anyway from us.
Agreed. There is no way to be 100% sure your spouse isn't continuing an affair (or having another one).
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement