One more bit of information... wife asked me a while back... "do you think we should have an open marriage?"
Well, do you?
I'm assuming the answer is no, so tell her so.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement