If you both are willing to work on it, then are trying to do so, then I think you're piecing.

And yes, now is a time to discuss the issues that each of you have. You might look into marriage counseling or something like Retrouvaille to help foster better communication.

There is a thread about Retrouvaille here:

Retrouvaille means change

Last edited by TrentC; 01/11/10 09:26 PM. Reason: Added link to Retro thread
Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."