Still Wondering How To Handle Things!!

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Thanks Sanderika...its good to hear from you. I wasnt surprised to find something like his writing to the OW. But I do realize it was the past...it just surprised me that it was a recent as 6 months ago. But then again, at that time it had only been about a year since their break up. I for one know the time it takes to get "over" someone, if there is such a thing.

Things are going good though and Im wondering if and when I should bring up the subject of how he is feeling about us...or if I should just let him bring up the subject, but knowing him, he is probably waiting on me.

I have to say something he did tell me a while back and Im not sure if I posted it already, but he told me that he always wondered why I never chased after him and begged for him to come back home in the past....I asked him if that would have done any good and he replyed "probably not"....so why make myself look weak? Just something I wanted to tell everyone.

I have noticed that he does not text me much at all anymore. He is attached to his phone alot less than before. I miss it some, but I like not having to listen out for my phone as much.