Ups and Downs

[givingitmyall]

Because of this:

I'm at a point where a life together would be nice, but it is no longer necessary. We'll sees where it goes.

You are simply dead wrong about this:

I dont really feel qualified to give advice, as I have not been successful in my own sitch.

If you have improved yourself and haved saved yourself, you ARE a success. Saving the M has never been the definition of success around here.