It exhausting continuing to DB, my H is away for ten days and tbh Im struggling this week, think because we are starting to piece things back together and I was getting some uplift from that and of course hes not here so Im not getting anything to keep me afloat also the bad weather here in the UK isnt helping.. what Im trying to say is that it is an up and down thing! you can get along fine for a week or two then splat back down you go, it does get better with time but then things change and off you go again, the trick is to be flexible and be open to change as much as possible, also think through lots of situations and what you might say then it wont come as much of a shock to you as not rehearsing. If the only way you found her payg phone was snooping best not to say anything you wont win that war cos you were snooping in her books and thats out of order.
Certainly cut back on the chores of hers that then enable her to have time to talk to OM on the net, can you get on her laptop to see what she has been up to, or is visable by her bills. Accepting she will do this somehow is a big move forward for you, because not only will you not care less that will be portrayed in your behaviour. It wont hurt to keep taking the girls out on trips on the pretext of giving her space, eventually she might have enough space for it to be boring, the interesting thing is in all of this EA is she hasnt been brave enough to just waltz off that does say a fair bit.. Hope you get a good nights sleep tonight and tomorrow is a better day, but feel free to rant away on here its good for the soul!
Last edited by Lost Rabbit; 01/11/1009:07 PM.
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