I have not followed your sitch, but I assume S is full speed ahead toward D.
Originally Posted By: digger22
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W and I have a lot of assets
If lawyers get involved, they will know your net worth, stir the hornets nest, and take out a big chunk of it. I strongly suggest protecting yourself. Do work yourself.
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100+k paid for assets in my business, 1 6200 sq ft house, 1 1300 sq ft house with pole building, 19 vacant lots and a 30 acre chunk of land with 1/4 mile of river frontage. She is all fired up that we need to get everything sold so that we can move on with our lives.
Put the ball in her camp: "W, I understand your desire to get things moving as quickly as possible. I would like you to suggest 3 appraisers that I can pick from that we will use to appraise all our property."
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I don't think selling
she does
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or divorce is right decision
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so I feel like just letting her proceed whatever way she wants, I'm just not going to help.
Do not help her but protect yourself, your family and your kids.
Proceed "as if" you are getting a D. Splitting of assets is part of D.
At some point, a statement like "Since we disagree on keeping or selling the property, We will need to split the assets equally between us. I want to keep X, Y, and Z and the value is $$$."
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712