one other interesting thing I saw somewhere back there in the resources about a timeline--- starting with a nervous breakdown.
she had one back in 2007-- I was in the hospital and she kept trying to page me over and over again-- and it was on vibrate. I was operating and they didn't answer-- she called 911 and was brought to the hospital in an ambulance with both 4 year olds. she keeps bringing this up that I just stood in the doorway when I came in and saw her.. of course I was shocked-- but she says I didn't come to console her-- and that is when I "lost" her. of course there were many great times after that.
but it is interesting how the other story had a similar episode in a similar time line...
