My gut hasn't let me down yet. I follow it now. I would suggest you follow yours.
If it looks like an elephant and sounds like and elephant, it's probably an elephant ... even if it's wearing dark glasses and an overcoat, it's still an elephant.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"