I understand. DBing says you don't bring it up as it would be seen as pursuing, pressure etc.

However HE would be bringing it up. I just thought that showing some concern may let HIM talk about it which is good.

Anyway, the chance has passed so we're talking at cross purposes smile


Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y
Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010

"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient."
"Delay is the antidote for anger"