Newmama ... that is fear plain and simple. Nothing you said there is pushing him towards doing it. If he is going to do it he is going to do it. What you are doing there is simply AVOIDING him telling you. You can't do that.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
