Alright... so I am trying to do as much homework as possible. I am working with a lot of people. Here is a summary of the situation:
Pastor - Gather more intel, I have trusted long enough.
Dr. Huizenga - Hold tight and gather more intel to determine type of affair.
DB Coach - Call on Wednesday.
MC Friend - Says I should confront with MC as soon as possible. Downplayed the risk of minimizing. Whether it is emotional or physical, she is still way out of line seeking to have her needs met outside of the marriage. My W says she loves me and is committed to the marriage. How is she going to show it? Should discuss concrete goals for MC with W. If she is going to work on the marriage there needs to be NC with other man and transparency. W says this is about trust and that takes time. Ask her how I can build trust while NC with her continues?
Main IC / MC - Session this evening.
Puppy & other DB Veterans - Hold tight and gather more intel.
