Drummerboy,
I too got the ILYBNILWY (I love you but not in love with you) speech yesterday! I have been seperated for almost 6 weeks now. It does hurt really bad. I'm so sorry for your pain!!! I have gotten a lot of great advice from people on here, as I'm sure you have too. Hang in there.


Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10