Drummerboy, I too got the ILYBNILWY (I love you but not in love with you) speech yesterday! I have been seperated for almost 6 weeks now. It does hurt really bad. I'm so sorry for your pain!!! I have gotten a lot of great advice from people on here, as I'm sure you have too. Hang in there.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10