No. I wasn't suggesting you talk to him about the R or M. I was suggesting you just being concerned his eyes are red and then he may see an opportunity to talk to you.
I did not want to take the chance it was about our relationship. It could go like this: me: is something wrong? You look a little sad! wh: yeah. well...it's too bad about everything that's happened. I am working on the paperwork for D. It's time. me: your choice entirely. I am still commited to our marriage. wh: I know you are. but we need to move on.
????I know that is my imagination!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004