Hi NEwmama, I don't intend to EVER tell the kids about the men. Especially my teenaged son who is now forming his own id, etc. And there is absolutely no point.
It was more about the OW -- because he's hiding her, while lamenting how sad that our marriage was unhappy and fell apart. The dishonesty, both now and during our marriage, makes me sick, but I am hesitant to mention any affair partners if it's not helpful and might even be harmfulu to them. I guess what I'm trying to say is I don't want to be so angry that I hurt my children with info that's not pertinent to them. But if it is beneficial to them, then I'll say something.
