Separated, new baby, but still hopeful

[newmama]

Did you not ask him about that? I think I would have taken the opportunity for a little TLC if it was going that way - concern, compassion and understanding given you sitch.

I did not want to have any talk about our relationship in case that is why he was crying. No relationship talk during DBing nd definitely no talk with a foggy spouse! I will talk when he brings it up, I guess.

Don't worry about TLC--he knows I am a caring compassionate woman; have been from the start of our dating. I think I have shown him plenty of TLC by being so accommodating about the visitation schedule, cooking, being NICE to him while he is screwing another woman and leaving his wife and child every night, etc. etc.

whew...just a little frustration there!

I also still don't think he's all the way in and convinced of it. Just my 2p worth.

I was thinking this too...but don't want to jinx anything.

Mindfull, my Mon night class is pilates and Thurs night will be belly dancing!

and I am down 41 pounds! In anther 10 or so I get to wear a smaller pants size!
(I gained 80 @#$%$ pounds during pregnancy!!)