SO2, so glad that you didn't feel bad or guilty - that is a big step.
Now, WHY are you talking to these women?! You don't have to be rude, but it might be best to just stay away from them...remember that they had similar morals to your ex - they are NOT your friends!
I don't talk to MGF anymore. She contacted me right before Xmas. I wasn't going to say much, but then I thought my silence was defending exh's bad stuff. She was looking for some answered questions about stuff he told her and did. I answered her questions but not much more. We haven't spoken for a few weeks now.
OW lives up the street from me. I have no issues with her anymore. Yes, she played her part but she did apologize to me and was lied to as well. No, I don't forget what she has done and we aren't buddies, but I do forgive her. We don't really talk anymore, but see eachother around due to the small town stuff and my son's friend.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
